FROM SUCKCESS TO SUCCESS

Join Dr. Lewis in a conversation with Enrique Acosta Gonzalez. Enrique is the CEO of Triad Leadership Solutions LLC. and a 26-year US Navy veteran. He is a best-selling author of five books and an award-winning podcaster. Enrique is a sought-after...
Join Dr. Lewis in a conversation with Enrique Acosta Gonzalez. Enrique is the CEO of Triad Leadership Solutions LLC. and a 26-year US Navy veteran. He is a best-selling author of five books and an award-winning podcaster. Enrique is a sought-after John Maxwell certified coach, trainer, and speaker and is an avid mentor in three national and international organizations. Website: www.triadleadershipsolutions.com Email: triadleadershipsolutions.com
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at three zero one three two eight
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fast track to success. Well.
Hello, and welcome to the Success for
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Women's Show, where you can view
us on Talk for TV and listen to
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us on the Women for Women Network. I am doctor Madeline Ann Lewis your
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host, and my mission is to
help women accelerate the path to success.
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Well, today's topic is from Suck
Cess to Success and my guest is Enrique
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Augusta Gonzales. Let me just give
you a little background on Enrique. Enrique
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is the CEO of Triad Leadership Solutions, LLC, and he served twenty six
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years in the United States Navy.
He is on the Powered List of the
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top two hundred, number seventy six
thought leaders to Follow, and he is
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on the Bestsellers list with five books
to his credit. As well as being
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an award winning podcaster, he is
also a sought after John Maxwell's certified coach,
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trainer and speaker, and is an
advid mentor in three national and international
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organizations. His impactful delivery of leadership
truths leaves the listener with renewed hope and
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energize to regain their position in leadership
and make an impact in their year of
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influence. I would like to welcome
to the Successful Women's Show Enrique Augusta Gonzales.
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Hi, I welcome, Thank you
for joining us today. It is
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a pleasure to have you on the
show. I'm so excited because leadership is
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always one of the things that I
love to, you know, just make
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sure to kind of stay up on
and the women that I work with to
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make sure that they are functioning as
they should in that area. So,
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but before we get started, I
always give the standard bio on my guests,
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but I then like to ask my
guests to just tell us what you
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want us to know about Enrique Augusta
Gonzales. Well, if there's anything to
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know is that I'm a servant at
heart and aim to stay that way.
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We had a lot of leadership opportunities
in life and a lot of opportunities to
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lead others in many ways, but
I do it from a servant standpoint and
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try to make sure that at the
end of life that someone can say of
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me, you know, he served
me well, absolutely absolutely. So tell
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us, you know, first of
all, I want to talk about the
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title in case my viewers didn't get
that, from sucess to success so suck
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being s U C K C E
S S. So tell us about that.
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Talk to us about that, you
know, give us an idea of
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what that means. Yeah. So, you know, there's a lot of
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folks that are trying to find what
success means to them, and we know
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by now for those that are seasoned
that success is individual and sometimes at a
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time right, you will have periods
of success. You'll have moments of success,
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You'll have projects that have been successful, and yet and still is still
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it is a thing that we're chasing
almost daily. And I have come across
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and I'll tell you, even myself, I have had times where I've gotten
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awards, I've gotten promotions, I
have got accolades, praise, you name
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it, but inside I was not
successful. And so I started to think
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about those moments as a leader and
as a human myself living, and I
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identified that external success does not mean
internal success. You could literally be sucking
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at life and still get accolades.
So what you see people getting at awards,
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banquets and all that maybe a very
nice show, but internally they suck.
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Everything is everything is like that.
And so that's where that came from
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a personal reflection of my periods of
success and how I felt during those times.
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And I said, how appropriate that
suck was still fitting there. And
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so I said, you know what
I want to do with TRYAD leadership solutions
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is take people from that internal success
and make get success and external success where
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they can meet and and then you
could actually feel the joy, the full
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joy of life and living. M
hm wow, that's interesting. So if
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I know your your specialty is leadership, Okay, so tell us in you
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know, what does leadership really mean
to you? I know you you talked
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about the success part of it and
you know the internal part of it.
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But as a leader yourself, tell
us what it. What does leadership mean
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to you? Yeah, leadership means
to me that you can become the best
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follower there is. You know,
there's a thin line between the position of
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best follower ever and leader absolutely,
and it's so thin that sometimes you go
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back and forth, right, But
it's a delicate dance between those two positions.
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But you can't lose either one of
them. As a leader, you
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have to know at times that you're
at the head and you're you know,
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you're calling this the shots and all
of this, and then there are times
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where you have to meander over to
the best follower category and let somebody else
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lead for the sake of their growth. Right. So that delicate dance is
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what I call leadership. Wow.
And you know, I always think about
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what the military, because you know, I was in the army. Always
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they always used to say lead,
follower, get out the way, you
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know, so you know it that's
actually true. Like you say, there's
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a there's a line there. You're
either leading, you are you following,
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But sometimes you may have to in
some cases wind up doing both. You
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know, you might be the leader
on something and you know where you are,
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ordinarily people think of you as the
leader, but in this particular thing,
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it may not be your time to
be the leader. You might have
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to follow someone, you know,
because of what's going on and with what
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needs to happen. So, yeah, I understand that now you are as
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a leader, as a leadership you
are a leadership manager and career developer from
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what I was looking at from your
your bio and different things like that.
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So tell us which type of leadership
do you like to focus on. I
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like to focus on the positional leadership
and and so and this is what I
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mean by that, going back to
our military days, right, so you're
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running information, yeah, and you
have different positions. You got your guide
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on. That guide on is in
the front. That guid on never moves
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back, right. The people may
switch out, but that flag is in
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front. And so you have some
people that or that's their position, they
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don't they don't move from the front. But then you have your cadence caller,
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your cadence caller called to be on
the side and at the middle,
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not at front, not in the
back, right enough for him to be
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heard or heard to be heard evenly
across the whole you know, formation.
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And then you have those that are
in the back that not necessarily all the
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weakest because someone has to pull the
stragglers right, and so that that that
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switch and every one of those are
leading at what how I say where they
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are, where they are leading where
they are and so uh and I take
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a lot of my analogies and a
lot of my applications from my military uh
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you know, history or experience,
because I've seen those positions mismanaged. Even
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in a cadence car, they have
somebody in the front that can't take,
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you know, take the load.
The person in the front has to do
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the whole thing without any hiccups unless
you're gonna switch them out right, yes,
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but the shot caller, if they
fall back, the people in the
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front are not gonna get in step
right. So I've seen those positions mismanaged
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at times, even even just running
right and absolutely, and so I started
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I started to think, Okay,
what's this thing of positional leadership, and
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how can I address that with all
those that come to me. So I
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say that because at first I try
to find out where they are in the
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formation. Okay, you know where
are you and I'm in the front,
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but you're in the front, but
you're focusing on stragglers, So how can
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you you know? And so that's
why I say I focus on positional leadership.
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That way we can get them in
the right spot doing the right thing,
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and then if they want to switch, then we can look at that
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career transition and get them switched exactly, because you wouldn't necessarily always put like
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you were saying, the running formation, You're not going to always put the
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fastest runner on that front row because
some of those people in the back can't
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keep up with that person that fast
run on the front. So sometimes that
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fast runner got to be in the
back, like you say, so they
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can help motivate and bring those stragglers
along, you know. So, yeah,
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it's all about the position and positioning. You're absolutely correct, and that
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that it's interesting that you use that, you know, as you do your
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programs and how you do your business. Interesting that you use the military analogy.
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I don't. I never looked at
it from that standpoint. I guess
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I always did it from the standpoint
of the discipline part of it, you
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know, looking at it from that
point, you know, like it's saying,
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make a decision to stick to it, good, bad, or and
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different. You know, I kind
of look at it from that point of
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view. But that's interesting that you
that you you say that when you're looking
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at the formation and stuff like that, and how their positioned. And that
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that's also depending on the leadership roles
too, and at least to why we
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say no one left behind, no
one left behind, because we have to
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know that at any given time during
that you know, evolution, we're going
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to have some people want to give
up. Oh yeah, I've been there,
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but you know they're twenty five mile
rucksack margin and all that kind of
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stuff. Yeah, just so oh
yeah, but we rotate the people as
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we were looking. We're looking and
we're seeing and we said, okay,
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hey, Johnny, go back,
Hey soon, go get this on,
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go get yeah, and then but
everybody makes it together, right, and
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so you know that that mentality of
no one left behind exactly facilitates those those
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things together and they come back together. Absolutely. Wow. That that's that's
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a great way to look at it
that I had, like I said,
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I had not looked at it from
that standpoint. Now, I know,
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like you said, you were in
the Navy. So did most of your
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leadership training come from being in the
service? Is that you know where you
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picked up most of your leadership training? Well, leadership started in high school
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in oral right, So I was
Rotzi and and I had some experience there
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but the majority of not all,
were as attributed to my naval career.
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Okay, wow, that's interesting.
So now we know that some people they
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don't want to be a leader,
and some just like you said that they're
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not good leaders. So what it
made you kind of step into the role
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of being a leader, because I
know when you said, Rozzi, that's
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that's normally when you go through that
a lot of time you're being groomed those
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leadership roles. Okay, so what
made you want to step into you know,
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because like I said, some people
just say, hey, I'm just
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here trying to make any big decisions. Just let me go along with the
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flow. So why why do it? Yeah, and let me talk real
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quick about those people. I love
them. I love them because they already
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know they want nothing to do with
leadership. The troubles happen when somebody that
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acts that way tries to, for
the sake of positions and money, push
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their way into leadership, knowing good
and well, they have no interest whatsoever
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in leadership. And so I love
the people that will tell you straight out
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I don't want nothing. I'd be
like, thank you, thank you,
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because I know who you are and
what you need. And we're going to
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keep you there if you want.
But anyway, back to your question,
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Rotze. So in boot camp they
weeded out that first guy they put in
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a position of authority. So within
a couple of days, that guy they
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say, you're you're the what we
call our CPO in the Navy. It's
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that is that cadet, is that
recruit that they say, you're in charge
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of this whole group here and if
anything happened, we're coming to you.
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Right. So that guy, he
three days and he was out. And
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so apparently they went in my record
and said, hey, you know,
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report to the office. And I'm
like, oh, lord, what I
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do? I just got here and
they said, hey, we just fired
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that guy. And I was like, yeah, I saw him crying on
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the way out. It say you
got Rotzi experienced, you're it, and
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and that was it. They had
no in three days, they couldn't have
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picked up that Enrique was the guy. Right. They went in my record
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and uh and and you know what's
funny, Yeah, but now you're the
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guy. Right. So thankfully enough
that that led to an entire period we
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we I got everybody through that whole
book camp experience, and then we graduated,
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right, So that started the whole
thing for me in the military.
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Wow. You know, now I
go to my first school and they're like,
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oh youse, r CPL. Okay, well you got this squad.
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You know, it kept snowballing from
there. Wow. You know. And
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it's interesting because you know, most
people know if you're in the military,
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at some point you go, you're
gonna wind up over somebody. If it's
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only that one, somebody gonna wind
up having somebody that's under you in some
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you know, in some capacity.
And you know, when you like,
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like you say, when you got
those that just really don't want to they
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don't want to accept that leadership role, it just it in a little in
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a bit, especially in the military, kind of complicates things. You know,
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Yeah, it can complicates things because
then you got to figure out,
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Okay, what am I going to
do with this person? You know,
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just where do I put them?
Because they still you know, they still
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have to learn. Then think about
it, what I saw in the military,
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you still had to learn the leadership
pretty much learned those leadership principles.
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Oh yeah, no matter how far
you went or didn't go, you still
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needed to learn them. If you
were going to survive in the military,
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you still needed to learn them.
Yeah, and that is true. Actually,
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our performance and reviews, our performance
reviews, and our advancement cycles depend
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on leadership experience exactly. So if
you aim to get anywhere on the next
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pace, hey, buddy, you
know on that pay scale, if you
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wanted to move up in any of
those E ranks or O ranked, leadership
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was a It was, you know, undisputably the thing you needed. And
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so yeah, but you know I
had a and I'll tell you I had
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come into my final command and I
was looking at the leadershoppicially. You know,
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you move in ninety days, you
don't touch nothing, you just let
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everything say, and then ninety one
that's when you start messing around with the
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dominoes. Right. So there was
an individual, he was an six in
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charge of the group, and in
ninety days I could not see one ounce
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of leadership from this guy. Wow. And I'm like, how did he
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make it so far? Yeah?
Yeah, And it goes back to that
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success. Wow. Sometimes for the
sake of the mission, we let things
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pass on by m hm. Right. We don't want to we don't want
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to be the one that kill a
career. Well, we don't want to
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be the one that could. Could
you know, confront somebody and say,
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hey, you've met your ceiling.
It doesn't look like you don't go anywhere
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from there. Now I can get
you to the next side. They're gonna
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take a lot of pain and a
lot of work on your on your behalf.
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So this individual had just been moved
along, you know, at the
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minimum requirements, and they just moved
them, all right. And so if
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you look at the military structure,
every three years, we're out, we're
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going to somewhere else. Well,
they got to get to know this guy.
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They just moved on and by the
time they realized who this guy is,
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it's time to move him on.
And so he made it that long.
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And I had a conversation with him, and I said, look,
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I completly uh, I'm proud of
you for having gotten where you've gotten and
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and kudos to you, but there's
a thing I need out of the position
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that you're in, right, and
you're not providing that, And so no,
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foul right, I can't. I
can't answer for things that should have
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been addressed a long time ago.
But what I'm going to do is ask
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you one thing. Do you want
to be the leader of this group.
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And he says, naciness to you, And I said, I knew it,
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but thank you for being honest.
I'll rearrange things and I put the
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right person in the lead and that
and that group flourished. So sometimes you
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have to identify that suck in the
success of people. You don't have to
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be mean about it, right,
you know, uh, but you have
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to bring some class and some realistic
you know, uh approach to what they
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want. And you know what happened. He say, ain't nobody ever asked
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me if I wanted to be a
leader? Wow? And I said wow,
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I said wow. I said,
well, you know, I'm glad
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that that we're having this conversation because
from now on, this group and and
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sure enough that that group ended up
being an award winning group by the time
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they were done. Wow, that's
great, you know, to be able
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to see that. And like you
say, not you know, embarrass him
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in any way or or make him
feel less than but just hey, okay,
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you don't want to do it,
and obviously you don't mind following someone
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else, so let's just put you
somewhere else. And and you know,
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and and and he and he retired, you know, he was happy.
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Uh and and the group was better. Uh. It's a lot of times
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as leaders, we we don't have
those delicate and tough conversations. Yeah.
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Yeah, and and we just rather
move people along just for the sake of
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not really you know, shaking that
boat in the water exactly because you know,
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at that rank, he's six I
know in the army, that's that's
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a staff sergeant something. Maybe it's
it's relative the same about the same rank
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right at Yeah, absolutely so,
uh yeah. To not not recognize that
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before he got to that rank,
that was that's something that's unbelievable in a
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way. You know, Like you
said, I think what happened was a
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lot of the people that were he
were you know, reported to, didn't
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want to address the issue. They
probably saw it, just didn't want to
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you know, they didn't want to
address it, which means that needed to
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look at their leadership too. I
don't know, we're gonna we're gonna bust
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open a can of words there.
Uh, you know, leaders leaders that
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you know, we have the obligation
to look at the holistic view for the
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for of the of the command of
the company. Right, let's just talk
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about company. It's it's your that's
your task. Yeah, to be the
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eyes and ears of those executives in
the company. And when you cannot see
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or you can't hear what the people
are actually asking for and you'll miss those
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cues. You know, he didn't
want to be. He didn't want I
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mean, the guy was like,
oh, thank you, right, you
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know, I thought, it reminds
me when I was when I was still
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in and I had reached the rank
of sergeant major, and at that point
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my mom had taken ill, and
so I was I had to I had
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gone home, you know for a
while, to do some things, help
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take care. But the thing of
it is I had to come. I
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came back, then I had to
go back again. And so what I
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decided at that point, I said, well, I can't do this because
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I had eighty soldiers under my direct
command. I'm like, okay, you
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know you can't. I can't lead
anybody if I'm not here. I can't
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advise, I can't instruct, I
can't I can't do any of that if
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I'm not here. So I put
it. I put in my paperwork for
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retirement, and you know, I'm
again. I went back home and I
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noticed the paperwork was taken a long
time. So when I got back,
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I asked. I went to the
sergeant and I said, hey, I
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haven't gotten anything on my paperwork yet. And he tells me he said,
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yeah, yeah, Well the colonel
told me that just to hold on to
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it for a little while to see
if you'll go change your mind. I
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said, no, I can't do
that, I said, if I'm not
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here, I just felt like they
needed to put somebody else in that position.
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You know that why you can't hold
a position if I'm not there,
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because, like I said, like
you said, the structure, the structure
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now is beginning to fall. But
you know, so like you say,
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there's things like that. You have
to be able to see and know how
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to handle that kind of thing too. If somebody can't feel the position for
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personal reasons or what have you,
you need to make a decision as to
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what needs to be done and how
to do it. And either the person
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in the position or the person,
like you said what you did with the
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guy, the person that's over that
person, you know, have to make
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a decision as to what needs to
be done. No, and good of
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you to do that, because there's
some leaders that you know, come hell
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of high water, they are not
relinquishing that that spot. And believe me,
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that's when trouble happens exactly exactly,
and it is you know, at
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some things. You know, I
had to represent the kernel going out and
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doing different things for him. So
if I'm not there, then you also
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now you have a holding, you
know, in your structure there. So
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no, yeah, I knew it
was time then for me to go ahead
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and retire because I probably would have
stayed just a little bit longer. So
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I wound up doing twenty two years, but I might have did a at
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least about thirty if I if that
had happened. Yeah, So but I
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tell you, Okay, so here
we go. I'm coming into some tricky
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question I'm trying to before we end
this one not so much tricky, but
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the next one will be so prayed. Now, some people think that there's
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a difference between a born leader and
a made leader. I know you've heard
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that some leaders are born, some
leaders are made. What do you see
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as the difference in a born leader
and a made leader or is their difference?
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Well, what I believe is we're
all born with a capacity to lead.
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Every single person, because if you
really look at leadership, where it
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is best exemplified is in yourself.
Right, If you can't lead yourself through
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the morning, and I don't want
you leading nobody. And there are some
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individuals that have a rough time just
you know, putting on the right shoe
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and the right foot, right and
so, and that's okay because we all
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have different capacity. That person may
have trouble putting on some shoes. They'll
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work the smack out of a computer, right, So you know it,
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it's incumbent on the leader to identify
everybody's capability. But we're all capable of
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leading. Now there's don't want to, right. So what makes the difference
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between someone that is seemingly born a
leader is opportunity. Right, We're not
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all afforded the same opportunities. Now, the same opportunities may be there here,
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but not all have been afforded equally. Education, because it takes some
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education to lead folks, especially when
you're talking about cross cultural leadership. You
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got to be smart enough to know
that in this culture you don't do that,
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you know, and and be able
to to to absorb that information and
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actually put put it in play so
you know, opportunities, education, and
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timing. There are some times it's
not the right time. And so if
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you have those three going for you, you're probably going to execute that capacity
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of leadership and go on and be
and do great things. But you could
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be born out of time, you
know, although although I am of the
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belief that we are born for such
a time, right, So that's different.
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But the timing, right, I
came in the military August. Let's
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say, so, I came in
the military November. By next August,
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I was supposed to be up for
my E three exam or my E three
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promotion. But guess what I was
five days short of the timing that the
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Navy has set for promotion. Guess
who had to wait another six months?
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I did for five days. So
timing is a thing, you know.
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Timing is a thing. So you
could be out of sync with time.
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You could be out of sync with
let's say the educational uh, the education
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afforded, you know, and you
definitely could be out of time. While
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you talk about, uh, what's
available, right, I grew up in
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the bronx, uh in the city, did not get the same thing that
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maybe the suburbs got, right,
uh, And so all those things have
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to kind of fall in line for
everybody's capacity to be connected to the availability
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to do leadership, and so absolutely
not everybody has the capacity to do so
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absolutely well. That brings me into
my next question, which I said was
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kind of a tricky question for you. Do you think women make good leaders?
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Absolutely? Okay, absolutely, My
wife will run circles around me and
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I'm getting the awards, you know, explain that. Look, I look.
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So for those that do not understand
the fullness that a woman brings to
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life itself, you're missing out.
Okay, you're missing out now. I
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will say that in all of that
ability to lead in dynamic and chaotic,
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if there's chaos, I don't want
to do the room. I need a
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lady to come and bring some sanity
to chaos. Because if you gotta study
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the woman, you gotta study.
I can't think of more than five things
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at one time. My wife has
gone through twenty in the last five minutes.
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Right, We're just wired differently,
and the person that understands those wiring
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schematics can literally put a woman to
play in a corporate or organizational setting and
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do amazing things, absolutely amazing things. But this world That's all I could
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say is that this world, yes
Ha has had believed and drank some kool
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aid. They should have they should
have never picked up hell yeah. So
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so there's some structural challenges, uh
in the world. You know, We've
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come a long way. But if
I had a preference, I'll be putting
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a woman in charge absolutely all right. Now, well, okay, maybe
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she wasn't drinking it. I've been
trained. Well, uh so, what
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leader would you say most inspired you
during your whole time? I know there
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there's probably one, maybe one leader
that you saw during your military career or
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even in life in general that inspired
you. Yeah, I've been less to
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have many right to bring one of
them out? In my head faces are
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just popping up. But I'll tell
you what was common among them all.
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They knew what they wanted. They
knew that they depended on people to get
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them there, right, and so
they decided to feed the people before they
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fed themselves. But feed the people
enough that the people recognized that he was
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going hungry, and so they fed
him, you know. And and to
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set that up, it has to
be no ego whatsoever, or if there
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is so minimal that you couldn't even
identify it. And so they did not
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put themselves before anyone. They fed
the people, but they were concerned enough
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about themselves to ensure that they put
some things in play that if all things
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fell apart, that they could survive
to the next day. And so you
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know, it's a very tactical,
strategic, operational way of doing things.
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But all of those people did that, and at the end everybody was successful.
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Everybody was successful, and that's the
end goal right there. That's the
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end goal. So if you had
to give one piece of advice or that,
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or you had one piece of advice
that you could leave with the viewers
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on leadership, what would that advice
be? You have one life, don't
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cheap people from good leadership. That's
what I would say. Absolutely. Okay,
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so tell us anything coming up?
You have, what anything on the
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horizon that you would like us to
know about. Uh? I know you
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you do your podcast? When when
do you you know? Come are that?
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Yeah? So the podcast airs every
every Monday, uh for the last
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almost five years, every Monday jor
six hundred uh for for for military folk
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six a m Eastern the civilian populous
and uh, and so we we we
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have that going out Uh, I'm
currently speaking, so there's a couple of
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speaking engagement that I've already been part
of. Grateful for that and look forward
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to some more working on another book. So uh, once I get a
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little more uh into the project,
I'll be releasing a little bit more about
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that. But it is taking you
from success to success uh so right along
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with my slogan. But hopefully hopefully
that will be out by by the winner,
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if not by spring. Uh.
And you know, we we're continuing
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to consult leaders. Uh. You
can go to the website at the bottom
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that's scrolling find out more information.
Uh. And if you feel that you're
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in any of the categories that we
had discussed all throughout this this uh uh
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you know talk uh, then uh, you know, send me a message
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or LinkedIn right LinkedIn is usually you
will find me most and you could look
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for me there. Wow. Well, thank you so much for joining us
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again. It has been a pleasure
to have you just share some of your
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nuggets with us. Definitely, I
hope the viewers uh was uh, they
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got a lot from it on leadership
and just understanding, like you said,
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just using the the that that military
formation. I just I just love that
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I love that, so I'm gonna
have to look at that a little closer
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now. So thank you again.
I appreciate you joining us. It's been
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a pleasure to have you here to
come and I know your your schedule is
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busy, so to take time out
to be here with us really do appreciate
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you. Thank you so much.
Well, thank you for asking to be
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on and bless you all. All
right, okay, so I'll just let
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everyone know what's coming up next,
some upcoming events, and that is,
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of course, I'm doing another Show
Up to Rise Up Virtual Summit, which
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is scheduled for September twenty six through
the twenty eight, twenty twenty four.
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And if you're interested in being a
speaker on the Show Up to Rise Up
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Virtual Summit platform, you can go
to www dot speak at Show Up to
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Rise Upsummit dot com. That's www
dot speak at Show Up to Rise Up
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Summit dot com. Or if that's
too long for you, you can just
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email me at info at EXWSI dot
com about becoming a speaker, mark your
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calendar, and also start working on
getting your passport. As I said,
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if you don't already have one,
you're gonna need it or you're gonna need
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to renew it. Why because the
next Show Up to Rise Up Women's Retreat
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is being planned for April twenty twenty
five and the location is going to be
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the Hotel Emotions Resort and Spot in
the Dominican Republic. So if you want
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to be kept up today are to
be placed on the list to attend,
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you can email me at info at
EXWSI dot com. If you have not
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viewed my TEDx talk that I did
in Vancouver, Canada in twenty twenty one,
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make sure to do so. Of
course, the topic is show Up
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to Rise Up and you can watch
it on YouTube and to do so just
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put my name in the search box
doctor Madlin and Lewis. Or again you
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can send me an email for the
direct link to info at EXWSI dot com
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and I'll send you the direct link. Make sure to check it out because
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again I am still excited as up. Today we are at at two hundred,
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four thousand, and six hundred and
ninety three views, so you know
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my goal is to reach one million
plus views out there. So I want
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to thank all of you that have
been watching, that keep watching, that
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keep sharing, that keeps supporting the
video contributing making your comments. You know,
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I really do appreciate you, so
make sure to keep doing that.
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Just keep pushing it out there,
and I know we are going to get
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to that million plus views. Also, make sure to get your copies of
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the on It anthology, It's Your
Life On It Unapologetically and the Journal three
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hundred and sixty five Days to Transformation. To get either or both of these
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paperback you could get both together or
separately, go to my website which is
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www dot exwsi dot com and the
links are on my website are of course,
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both books are on Amazon, so
you can find them on Amazon also.
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And that's the on It anthology,
It's Your Life On It Unapologetically and
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the Journal three hundred and sixty five
Days to Transformation. I am also a
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contributing writer to the on It magazine
where I share nuggets and resources every month.
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On It magazine is a resource for
personal, professional and business development,
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so make sure if you want to
get a subscription to the magazine, you
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can go on my website for an
annual subscription, which is www dot exwsi
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dot com. If you'd like to
see a copy of the magazine first,
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you can email me at info at
EXWSI dot com and I'll send you a
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link to be able to take a
look at some of the amazing things that
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are in the actual magazine. I
actually want to thank my guest again,
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Enrique Acosta Gonzales, for being with
us. I would like to thank my
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viewers and my listeners for joining me
today. This is a successful women's show.
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I am doctor Madelin Anne Lewis,
and of course, if you like
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to reach out to me, I
am on all the social media platforms and
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my email courses info at EXWSI dot
com or go to my website www dot
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exwsi dot com. And while you're
there, make sure to download my free
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three part video series on three things
every woman should do to position herself for
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executive leadership. And you can also
sign up for my own online course,
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Crack the Career Code how to Lead
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sign up for the course, go
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forget to subscribe to the YouTube channel, our Top four channel and the W
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four WN channel. Make sure to
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Like this episode, we had some
great nuggets today from my guests Enrique
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Acosta Gonzales, so make sure that
you do share the information with others.
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Again, this is the successful Women's
Show. We are here every week.
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I am your host, doctor Madeline
Ann Lewis helping women to accelerate the path
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to success. Thank you again for
joining me. I love you all to
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life and as always, be well
and stay safe out there. Got the
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