Nov. 10, 2023

What Are You Seeking?

What Are You Seeking?

Join Dr. Lewis in a conversation with JJ DiGeronimo, President, of Tech Savvy Women. She is one of the most highly regarded speakers, authors, and executive strategists to attract, retain, and advance professional women. JJ navigated her way from...

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Join Dr. Lewis in a conversation with JJ DiGeronimo, President, of Tech Savvy Women. She is one of the most highly regarded speakers, authors, and executive strategists to attract, retain, and advance professional women. JJ navigated her way from entry-level positions to top-level leadership roles within leading technology companies and now shares the strategies and insights that helped her accelerate her career with her audiences. Email: hello@jjdigeronimo.com

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Let us get you on the fast
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and welcome to the Success for Women's
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I am doctor Madeline Ann lewis your
host, and my mission is to help

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women accelerate the path to success.
Well, today's topic is what are you

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seeking? And my guest is jj
D Geronimo. Let me just give you

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a little bit of background on jj
jj D Geronimo is the president of Tech

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Savvy Women, which is one of
the most highly regarded. She is one

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of the most highly regarded speakers,
authors, and executive strategists to attract,

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to attract, retain, and advance
professional women. She navigated her way entry

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level positions to top level leadership roles
within leading technology companies, and now shares

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the strategies and insights that helped her
accelerate her career with her audiences as a

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featured columnist for Smart Business Magazine and
Thrive Global. Jj has been quoted in

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numerous publications such as Forbes, The
Wall Street Journal, Fox Business, The

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Glass Hammer, and Working Women Magazine. I'd like to present to you today,

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mss jj D Geronimo. Well,
hello, and welcome to the Successful

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Women's Show. Oh thank you,
actor Madeline. I am thrilled to be

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here. Well, I tell you
what I always start off by giving the

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standard bio all my guests, but
then I like to ask the question,

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or really just ask them to tell
us what you want us to know about

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JJ D Geronimo. Jj D Geronimo
is a woman in business that had come

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up against many many obstacles when striving
for her goals and was certain that there

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was another way to get it done. And I have spent the last fifteen

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years really gathering strategies, best practices
and insights not only for my career,

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but to share them with other women
across the world so they too can make

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their goals a reality. Wow,
that is always a good thing. I

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love it. I love it.
I love it because that is my mission

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too, to just make sure these
ladies have to U can get around some

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of the obstacles that you know they
may have to face when trying to get

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where they're they're wanting to go.
So tell us what should people do when

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they start asking questions like what is
this all for? Or now what?

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Or is there more? And I
asked that because you're you know you your

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book on Seeking, I know it
deals with a lot of this, So

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tell us about that. Yes,
yes, and so Seeking is my third

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book, and it's something that has
sort of come to me later in life

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in the sense that I achieved many
of the goals I had strived for because

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of the other books and research and
things I've done prior to this. But

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I did get to a point in
my life where I was striving and driving

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so hard, but I really didn't
feel the joy and success is that I

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thought I would feel. And it
kind of came to a point in my

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own life where I had to sort
of turn around my navigation system that was

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so outwardly pointed all the time to
do some inside work. Wow, So

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you literally asked yourself those questions then, like what is this all for?

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I mean, how did you get
past that? Or how did you know

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exactly what you were seeking? Or
were you seeking anything? I didn't know

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what I was seeking, but I
kind of thought by this point in my

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life that I would have a lot
more joy, that I would feel like

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I could take my foot off the
pedal a little bit. But I felt

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just as anxious and driven as I
did in my late twenties and early thirties,

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and I just realized that no matter
what I conquered, what parrot I

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went after, what title I ran
for, that I was not going to

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satisfy that. That just tenacious energy
to get there all the time, And

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honestly, I couldn't even tell you
where there is, but I was so

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busy working to get there. Wow. And that's I think that's the way

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a lot of us are. You
know, we as you say that you

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know that the topic seeking, we're
all probably seeking something and in a lot

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of cases we just don't know what
that something is. So I know you

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also refer to something you say about
working on releasing stories within tell us about

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that. What do you mean by
that? Yeah, I'm just kind of

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going to the book now. So
interesting because I ended up in a therapist's

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office and I remember sitting there thinking, this is ridiculous. I can figure

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this out for myself. But the
reality was I couldn't. And when I

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talked to her about where I was
in my life, what was happening in

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the personal sides of my life,
I was really struggling. And it wasn't

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the struggle that most people would think, like, oh, she's you know

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some people I made me say I'm
going through mid life crisis, or you

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know, maybe I should have more
wine, or I should go on more

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trips. But I knew it was
more than that. I knew like I

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needed a real shift, but I
didn't know how to start. And thankfully

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the therapist that I went to was
really guided me towards mindfulness training, which

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at the time when she told me, I mean I think, I started

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crying. I was like, no, I really am lost in my own

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choices. Even though from the outside
I looked like I've got everything going in

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the right direction, I feel lost. And she said, you must go

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to mindfulness training. They have a
class. It's starting in a couple of

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weeks. Blah blah blah, And
of course I went home and did not

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sign up for it. And then
I went back to her again and she

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said, JJ, do not come
back here unless you sign up for that

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mindfulness training. And I just was
annoyed. I was like, I feel

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like I was going through like my
own reckoning that how could this mindfulness thing

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help me? But fast forward,
it really was the cornerstone for the work

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that I the inside work that I
did for years to follow. And I

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think a lot of women struggle because
the voices in their head, the stories

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they're telling themselves, the things they've
collected from second grade, you know,

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junior year of high school and even
beyond often impacts our decisions and the way

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we feel about ourselves. And for
me, mindfulness was really the key that

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helped me unlock that energy so that
I could have more joy in that current

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moment. Wow, Wow mindfulness.
So why do you think so many people

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may have a hard time with mindfulness? Do you have a lot of clients

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that you work with on, you
know, getting through that or figuring that

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out. Well, I'm a one
to many person and so I do a

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lot of keynote speaking and I do
talk about this quite a bit because I

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often start I used to start years
ago with real strategies to get a get

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to that next level, give that, you know, invitation to that board

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seat, get aligned with that next
strategic position. What I realized is that

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if we don't stop and think about
how we talk to ourselves, what we

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say when we're eagerly thinking about what
we want to do next, if we

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don't really do that inside work,
oftentimes the outside is not going to change.

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Okay, now that kind of brings
me to something interesting that I actually

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got in my email just probably this
week, and it was about the law

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of attraction. Do you think that
that has anything you know, is there

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any type of correlation between the law
of attraction and you know, mindfulness?

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Do you think that that's related in
any way? Yeah? I think if

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you ask most people, they would
say that they were positive and they had

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gratitude. I think most people would
say that in general. But if the

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reality is when you talk to women
about what they want to do next,

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what seat they want to get in, what title they want to achieve,

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and you say, okay, great, what is that? What is that

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for you? And they'll tell you
generally within minutes, they'll either tell me

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or you why it's not going to
work, why now is not the time,

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why they're not ready, why they
need another certification. If we're lucky,

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we'll hear all those things. If
we're not lucky to hear them,

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they'll be saying many of those things
to themselves. And when they're saying those

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things to themselves, they're talking themselves
out of leaning in. And what I

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tell a lot of women is like
that, research shows women wait and to

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be one hundred percent prepared before they
do anything. And the reality is,

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if you are waiting to be one
hundred percent prepared once, you're never going

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to go anywhere because there's no way
you can be prepared for something you've never

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done. And two, you're not
going to build your self efficacy. And

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self efficacy is having a vision for
where you want to go and believing you

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can achieve it. It's something that's
learned and it's essentially bucket you carry around

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and every time you wait to be
one hundred percent ready, you have no

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coins to put into your self plicacy
bucket, which is the bucket that you

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use when you're unsure about your choices
or you're not sure if you're ready.

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Wow, now you hit the nail
on the head about women waiting until they

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are prepared one hundred percent. That's
one of the things I say in my

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TED talk when I'd say, you
know, men will apply for a position

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when they have only sixty percent of
the requirements, but women, like you

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said, they won't apply unless they
feel they have one hundred of the requirements.

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And I mean, you wonder why
that is, because you know,

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what's the difference in the mindset.
You know what's the difference in the thinking

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that the man can say, oh, well, i have number one,

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number four, number five, so
I'm gonna apply for this, but the

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woman to look at it, and
she may even have more qualifications, but

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she still won't go for it if
she can't check all the boxes. That's

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amazing because we're trained. We're trained
from a young age. The way we

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trained the little girls and little boys
is very different. Right. Little girls

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are often aligned to very domestic things
to do them right. Men our boys

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are often aligned to outdoor things.
It's just like we And those are the

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stories I'm talking about that you have
to unwind, and you can only unwind

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them if you know that they're there, and the only way to know that

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they're there is you have to be
mindful of your thoughts, which I had

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to be trained to do because society
makes us believe that everything we need is

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outside of us, and they're going
to tell us through the television and ads

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and social media what we need when, and so we have to pause that

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stream of information to really sit with
ourselves in a way that we haven't done

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before or haven't done often, to
say, you know what, when I

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say I'm going to go for this
position, what am I saying to myself?

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What are the first few things I
say? I need to write those

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down, I need to look at
those? Are those supportive? Where did

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those stem from? When did I
hear those for the first time? And

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how do I underwind that conversation?
Wow? So when you finally listen to

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your therapist and went through through the
mindfulness training, what did that entail?

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I mean, what did you literally
have to do? You know? How

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did you do? I mean,
did you just sit in a room and

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just say block out everything and say
I'm going to sit here until I get

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it, or what exact did you
do? That's a great question, because

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I showed up with my notebooks,
my coffee, my favorite pen, some

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colored markers, some sicky notes,
because I was going to get stuff done

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while I was there. You know, it's a three hour class for eight

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Sundays, and I was going to
get stuff done. And after the first

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class, my teacher asked me what
all that stuff was for and if I

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could kindly leave it in the car, and I was like, no way,

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because I'm going to get stuff done. And it took me a couple

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of classes to be quite honest,
I mean it really did, and the

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whole idea. She does several exercises
based on John Cabotsin's training. One of

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them is eating a dried cherry,
So you know, she talks you through

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how to be in the moment when
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eating because most of us watch something, read something, talk on the phone,

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drive while we're eating, and so
really teaching yourself how to be in

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the moment in such a simple task
was really challenging, and she continued to

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build on from that each week.
But I will tell you the most beautiful

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thing of mindfulness is that I am
a viewer, a front row viewer of

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my thoughts, which you cannot stop. They're there all the time, but

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you get to decide which ones you
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you want to let go. And
I could never have done that by myself,

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Like I had to get formal training
to learn how to create that space

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and awareness for what I talk about
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that drives my decisions. So you
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change your life. Oh my gosh, it changed. It was really the

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cornerstone or the launching pad, because
then I started getting interested in all different

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types of modalities, energy practices,
healers, ancient wisdom, and I really

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did a six year journey of seeking
of what is out there? What can

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I learn about myself and how will
that help me create more self satisfaction in

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the sense that I'm just comfortable in
my own skin and potential joy. And

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that's what I talk about in my
third book, Seeking is their key strategies

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to raise your energy, sidestep your
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life's work. Because that's really what
came out of all of this seeking.

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That was an inside job. Wow. So how can we shift from seeking

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outward to seeking inward? That's a
great question. That's a great question.

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So the first thing is your thoughts. I mean, you really have to

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mine your thoughts. I think the
second thing is you have to pay attention

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to what you pay attention to.
So what shows are you watching, what

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things are you eating, What conversations
do you find yourself in, what friends

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are in your inner circle? You
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for so many of us, we're
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ball with the energy that we hold. And for many of us, if

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we want to really leap into that
next level of influencer impact, we often

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often have to hone our energy.
We have to create a launching pad for

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ourselves. And oftentimes you really got
to get yourself in the right space because

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many of us will say that we're
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the first ones in our head or
out loud to yell at somebody in the

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parking lot, be mad about the
coffee machine, you know, take it

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out on somebody and our family,
you know. And I feel like I

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really had to hone in my energy
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in the world. Wow, Now, what don't you mean by energy or

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even frequency. When you're referring to
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by that? Because you've mentioned so
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came from the tech space, the
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long time ago I worked on radio
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of technologies and offend radio, AM
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And so I really think about energy
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are you at eighty five point seven
ninety two point one? Okay,

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you know ninety five point four ninety
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Where are you most of the time? And if you want to create more

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opportunities for yourself or more levels of
engagement, how do you is the energy

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you're at working or do you have
to raise your energy to get into different

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rooms and different conversations? And so
how do you do that? And that

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really goes back to what are you
watching? What are you reading? What

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are you talking about? What are
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had to do is I had to
move from being more of a practicing polluter

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of oh gosh, the coffee machine
is empty, or can you believe that

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person didn't call me back? Or
can you believe I was on hold for

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an hour or I was supposed to
fly home yesterday and get home today,

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and all those people are idiots,
like where are you on the spectrum?

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And like how do you not let
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that's been a real journey for me, is to not let the outside world

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impact what radio station I am resonating
at. And that's been a really interesting

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experience and beneficial experience because I prefer
to be at a higher frequency because I

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get some really cool opportunities and conversations
like this, and I get to do

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some really awesome work, but I
was not getting access to when I was

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at a lower radio station, right
right, Wow, So can you also,

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you know, help yourself, Like
you were saying, what are you

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looking at? What? You know? What are some of the things that

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I would imagine, the people that
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that. So I guess it would
help too sometimes when you just kind of

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get away from it all and just
you know, say hey, I'm just

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gonna shut down for the day,
no cell phone, no computer, no

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people, no anything. I mean, doesn't that doing something like that wouldn't

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that help? Maybe the kind of
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bring that frequency back up or yeah, if you have things that like

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I yes, so, yes you
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much as I'd like to be quite
honest, you know, I have a

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thriving business that I don't. You
know, I have to do every day

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right, so I can't just shut
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don't know if I'd have the mental
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you know, before nine am,
or really before eight thirty, I

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have to do something outside or I
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I have to do something because I
know that I will be a better worker

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if I break a sweat. I
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that is part of my day most
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to bed at night, I'm listening
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I'm listening to books on Audible.
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that I really feel like help me
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high energy. Absolutely, and you
and I seems like we have basically the

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same routine because that's the way I
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my beginning my day. I have
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and like you said, it's like
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where I can go and let off
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different things like that. And again, like you said, before I go

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to bed, I don't put any
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watch anything on TV that I know
that's gonna have me. You know,

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sometimes you watch this stuff or you
listen to this stuff, and you lay

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down and go to bed and your
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there. And so I'm like you, I don't like to have that kind

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of stuff, you know, in
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go to bed, I like something
that's soothing, you know. I listen

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to different types of music or and
if I do watch something, it's gonna

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be something maybe that makes me laugh
or you know that's that's funny and something

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that I can enjoy because it gives
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like you said, in your mind
before you actually go to bed or what

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have you. Because I, yeah, that, wow, that is so

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interesting how our I guess our brains
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soaks in different things too, because
when you say about the mindfulness, when

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you think about it, it's really
making sure that your mind is well and

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that you're feeding at the right things. That that's what it sounds like almost

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that you you you really want to
make sure that it's you know, you're

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getting the right stuff in there that
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peace, keep you like you said, you can't you know, for you,

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shutting down a whole day is just
not in the cards. So you

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have to do other things to make
sure that you're getting through the day without

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all that stuff in your head.
Wow, that's true. And a lot

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of people say, well, a
lot of this significant other and he or

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she does this to me. I
just want to say, like, nobody

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really does anything to you. The
reality is is that is the energy that

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you're attracting right now, and if
you work to raise your energy. Yeah,

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those people often just float away,
as sad as it may be.

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You know, when I moved from
where I was to where I am now,

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like some relationships, yes, it
just kind of disappeared. Some had

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abrupt endings unexpectedly, but I know
now that they weren't for my highest good.

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book, Seeking, I had a
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you know, I'm writing this book
and it's a really high frequency book,

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and I have to stay in a
zone. So when we chat or

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whatever, I'm not going to be
able to like dissect the neighborhood whatever,

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or talk about whatever that might not
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you know, on the weekends or
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twenty minutes or talk about whatever.
But like if we talked her in the

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week, I'm just going to have
to keep it really high because I'm writing

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every day and I just don't want
to spend another hour trying to get back

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to a different energy frequency. So
I just told my friends and family and

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they were pretty cool about it.
They think it's funny. They're like,

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what frequency are you in now?
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joke of it. But the reality
is is like I had to almost verbalize

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it when I was writing this third
book because it was such a beautiful process

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in a lot of ways, it
was an intense process of just information that

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was just coming out on these pages, and I just really had to be

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mindful of my energy, especially towards
the end when it was all really coming

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together, like I could not get
myself caught up in nonsense. Absolutely,

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And I remember thinking as you were
talking and when I was younger, and

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like you were saying about relationships,
they just kind of fade away. But

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I remember thinking one day, after
a relationship I had been in, I

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thought to myself, you know,
something has got to change, because if

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there's an idiot within a fifty mile
radius, they will attach themselves to me.

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And it has to be something that
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I had, Yeah, you know, so I understand what you mean about

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having the change the way you kind
of do things too, so that you

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can attract something different. And you
know, some of those things that,

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like you say, you just kind
of start fading away. They don't you

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know, I don't get that.
I don't have that problem anymore, you

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know, So just I fout that
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I said, I literally sat down
and thought that and I had to,

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you know, I had to laugh
at it because I thought, yeah,

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you're gonna have to change something.
Yeah. Wow, And it's probably so

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helpful for the work you do now
because you can really empathize with people when

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they're different parts of their life and
what they're going through because you know,

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I and all the work that I'm
doing, like so many things that come

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your way, are to learn something, to expand your sphere of knowing.

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You know, and even sometimes we
don't even realize it, it really might

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give us like the stepping stone to
the next thing. And So if you're

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in a situation right now where you're
like, I don't know why this is

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happening to me, I can't believe
this, maybe just say what am I

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supposed to learn from this? What
am I supposed to learn from this situation?

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Because you want to move through that
lesson, especially if it's a yucky

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one as fast as possible. Yeah, Yeah, it's a learn it's actually

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a learning experience it. You know, you can learn something from it if

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you let yourself, you can learn
something from it. Wow. So how

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do you handle self doubt? Now? You know with this new insight and

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awareness that you have, especially about
the mindfulness part. Well, I have

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self doubt just like the rest of
us all the time, like it's always

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there, But now I sort of
follow what Jensen Sarah says in her book.

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You're a badass, she says,
let me just see what I can

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do. Let me see, because
if I'm just seeing, I'm not putting

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all these expectations on how it has
to look or what it needs to be.

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But I'm just checking it out.
And I really love that advice because

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it gives me permission to lean into
things. I have no idea what I'm

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doing. You know, I'm going
to start helping more women get published.

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And even though I publish through my
own books, I'm putting all the pieces

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together. And the self doubt around
that is obviously high, but you know

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what I've done it. I have
all the connections, I have all the

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back office, Like, yes,
I'm going to learn, but you know

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what, I'm going to help more
women get published. And to me,

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that's a bigger why than anything that
could possibly go wrong. Absolutely. Wow.

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So besides being a successful business woman
and award winning book writer, you're

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also a light worker. So ullus, what does that mean? Oh gosh,

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Well, I've been on this healing
journey essentially, and we all can

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heal a story, an experience,
a situation. Most of us have something

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they have to work through, and
I would say, through that I've learned

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a lot about myself, about my
connection, about my ability to channel information

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and even just create a path for
myself that often inspires others on their path.

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And I think for many of us, when we work through digging those

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stories, when we work from digging
out at the darkness, it illuminates us

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and illuminates others. Now, your
book Seeking that you wrote, this is

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about your journey. Tell us a
little bit more about your books seeking.

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Yeah, so Sinking Seeking is very
much about my journey, and it's a

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lot of stuff that I did off
the side of my desk. So you'll

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see a stack of books off the
side of my desk. It's things that

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I did because I felt inspired to
learn more about myself. And when I

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was writing the book, I really
talked about the relationship with my mother,

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my challenges with perfectionism, how money
had driven so many of my decisions,

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and the energy I've been giving money
for decades, and how I had it

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to shift that. So the appendance
of the book is quite dense because I

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share not only all the books I
read, the webinars I've attended, but

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all the energy healers I've gone too, and I've extended that into a community

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so that people can really work through
things that are no longer serving them.

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And I feel like Seeking for many
people has been that book that has helped

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them lean into what is calling them. So tell us what's next on the

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horizon, anything coming up that you
want to share with us and let us

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know about. Well, definitely helping
more healers, energy practitioners, like really

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great energy people getting their work published
because I think we need more of that

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in the world. So that's definitely
on the horizon. But also I'm working

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on I've been doing retreats for about
fourteen retreats I've already done, and I've

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been gifted this beautiful retreat place on
Lake Erie, and so I'm going to

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be starting to put more programming together
for people to come to the water,

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work with energy practitioners, put their
feet in Mother Natures, maybe sit in

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a drumming circle, or sit through
a bio hacking circle. Just really giving

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people access to more things to help
them shift the energy that's no longer serving

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them. And isn't that great.
I did a retreat earlier in the year

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where we went we were on a
lake, rented a house on a lake,

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and some the ladies went and it
was just amazing, you know,

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the energy that was there in that
group. And you know how some of

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the ladies that they really really needed
that, you know, just to be

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able to get away for a little
while and kind of rejuvenate themselves, you

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know, replenished, like they filled
their own cups first, you know,

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before they can take on the world
and take and help anybody else, kind

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of help themselves first to get back
into the swing of things. So that's

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retreats. I just love them.
I think they're fantastic thing to do.

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Yeah, So tell us if you
had one piece of advice that you would

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lead with our viewers and our listeners, what would that advice be. Now,

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there are very few accidents, very
few, you know, most things

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that cross your path are here to
serve you in some way. And I

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feel like you just have to be
in the present moment to see, be

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aware, listen to what is coming
to you. Most of my messages come

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through other people. If I hear
things two or three times, I'm like,

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oh, okay, I probably should
lean into that. So I think

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that, you know, my whole
goal in my life is to be in

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the present moment. As often as
possible. Mindfulness has definitely helped me do

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that, but it has given me
the joy that I was seeking, and

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also the just the experience that we're
having here every moment. And if you're

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still listening to us, there's more
in life for you. It's really about

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you just kind of away the stuff
that is no longer serving you so that

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you can really be in a place
to shine. Absolutely. Now, you

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mentioned wanting also wanting to help others
to get their work published, you know,

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so do you are you? Do
you have your own publishing company now?

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Or is this just coaching that you
will do to help them to get

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you know, get through that some
people have takes a really long time,

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or they don't know where to start
or you know, how to get started

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even to to start to write and
to publish anything. So is it you,

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uh, literally publishing for them?
Are you coaching them through how to

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get through that process? Either or
honestly I have options for both and whatever

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they seem to need. I think
people that have quite a bit of stuff

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written already is probably where I'm going
to start. Is people that I have

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sitting on manuscripts or close to finished
manuscripts that are looking not only how to

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get published, but how to get
noticed, because unfortunately, writing a book

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is a ton of work, but
marketing it is often harder. And not

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knowing where to start or what to
do and things that you need to do

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six months before you publish, six
weeks, six days, and then six

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months after is so critical and I
wish I had that when I published my

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first book, and now that I
have all the people and the resources,

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I'm looking forward to sharing these with
more people so that they can really use

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their book as a launching pad for
where they want to have more influence and

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impact. Absolutely, that's fantastic.
Well, tell us how can our viewers

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and listeners get in touch with you
if they want more information about what you

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do, also about the publishing getting
their book published. How can they reach

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out to you? I think the
best way. I mean, obviously,

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I have a website in social media
under my name JJD Geronimo, but I'm

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a back to the LinkedIn user,
as you will see if you check out

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my profile, so that's a great
way. I'm on there multiple times a

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day, but you can access me
just about every which way. So using

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Google to find me, you can
find your best favorite platform. Wow.

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Well, JJ, thank you so
much for coming on the show and sharing

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the great nuggets that you shared with
us. We really appreciate having you.

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And if there's anything else that you
would like to let our audience know before

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we go to any the upcoming events
that I have coming up, you feel

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free to do so. If not, then we'll just thank you again for

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being here. So if there's anything
else that you want to share with us,

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feel free to do so. Well. I just want to thank you

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for your work and what you do
for so many women, because I feel

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like women really have a struggle doing
it alone and they often need people that

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are going to push them along,
help understand their obstacles and even connect them

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with more women. And I think
you do that fabulously. And I would

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just say thank you for the work
you're doing well, Thank you so much,

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Appreciate you again, Appreciate you taking
time of your schedule to be here

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with us to share. Thank you
so much. And now I'll just let

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everyone know about upcoming events that I
will be having. Again, make sure

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you could go to my website www
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to get your copies. Make sure
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Business Olympics. It's going to be
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the Black Business Olympics is a fundraiser
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fifth through the twenty seven, twenty
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am also don't forget to make sure
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You can watch it on YouTube to do

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like to thank all of those that
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it, that have commented on it. I'm very excited because it's still moving

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forward. We're now at one hundred
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thousand views, and as you know, my goal is to reach a million

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plus views. So keep looking at
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on it. I really appreciate your
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Own It Magazine is a resource for
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if you want to get a subscription
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you can email me and I'll send
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me at info at exw SI dot
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guest again, mss jj Djenero,
and I'd also like to thank all my

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viewers and listeners for joining me today. This has been the success for women's

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show. I'm doctor Madelinie Lewis and
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You can email me at info at
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my website www. Exwsi dot com. While you're there, make sure you

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download my free three part video series
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com. You can also reach out
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sites I am on all of them. Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube

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like and share this episode with others. We had some great nuggets. Again,

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this is the success of women's show. We're here every week. I

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am your host, Doctor Madeleineann Lewis
helping women to accelerate the path to success.

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Thank you again to my guests J
J. D. Gennaro for joining

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us, To all my viewers and
my listeners, I love you all to

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life and as always, be well
and stay safe out there. I got the time